According to
The Barna Group (a market research firm
specializing in studying the religious beliefs and behavior of
Americans, and the intersection of faith and culture) around 98% of all
Church growth is transfer or biological.The truth is evangelism in the
West has been largely ineffective and with good reason.
Its one thing to acknowledge that something is not working but
greater courage is needed to do something about it. It seems to be a
part of human nature that people remain within unworkable situations,
one only has to look at unhappy marriages where people stay together
long after its use-by date. When we walk away from that which is unworkable we stand a greater chance of finding that which does work.
With over 3,500 Churches in the US closing each year Christendom has
proven to be unworkable the current model is outdated it bears little
resemblance to the original. When it comes to finding a spiritual path
that is authentic, the church promotes the same old tired absolutes: more
concerned that Christianity is the
only way more concerned with teaching spirituality as a system of beliefs, more concerned with
doing and not
being, of
which a system of theological absolutes are a significant part. The
church seems more concerned with defending the premise that Jesus is the
ONLY way yet failing to show how the ONLY way is lived out in real life.
One of the reasons, and there are many, that evangelism has been so ineffective in the West is
the message is never better than its messenger. If
what you say isn’t reflected in who your are, it matters little how
good the, so-called, good news is. It’s sometimes hard to tell the
difference between those who say they have found the way and those who
haven't.
I’ve met many spiritually connected people who have come
from buddhist, muslim, hindu, new-age and the christian tradition. The
one thing they all share is a deep connection with life they have often
found what the mystics from all traditions call the True-Self. They
emanate a deep-sense of joy they seem at peace with the world and with
themselves.
There comes a point when many feel the need to move forward, to grow
up, to remove the training wheels, to leave home and find a space that
resonates as true and real. We don’t demonize our first frame of
reference. We don’t criticize the place where we first grew up, We realize
how important the first half of life is yet we also realize that when
we grow up we often
grow out this means moving to a space and place that is larger still;
if
it’s not broken don’t fix it, but equally, if it is broken have the
presence of mind to realize it and then seek the courage and the
commitment to do something about it.
Copernicus was famous for his resistance to
flat earth thinkers, and
it
almost cost him his life. Not surprisingly his greatest critics came
from the church. They feared he might be right but, more, they feared
being proven wrong, all or nothing thinking will always create
insurmountable challenges. If we hold to a premise that is rigid or
fixed there will always be little room for movement if one thing is
proven to be wrong then reason says that the whole premise, therefore,
must also be wrong.
Truth is not something you believe; it’s not a commodity, it’s not something you have or own its something you
live. We change the way we think by changing the way we live;
“We do not think ourselves into new ways of living, we live ourselves into new ways of thinking.” ― Richard Rohr